When I was young, I often played the game Mercy. It's a simple game, really.
You and your opponent take both of your hands and intertwine them with each other's. You then proceed to bend them back trying to "win the game." When it starts to hurt beyond what you can handle, you merely yell, "Mercy!" and your opponent stops. Whoever yells "Mercy!" is the loser.
Webster defines mercy as this: Compassion shown to an offender; imprisonment rather than death imposed as penalty for first-degree murder.
In the Christian life, we are far from losers when we are given mercy. Not only was Christ's sacrifice on the cross full of grace, but also full of mercy! We deserved that cross, not Jesus. We are the offenders, not Him. But God showed us his amazing compassion by not giving us what we deserve.
We readily accept that mercy from God and are so thankful that we aren't given what we truly deserve. But as fast as we receive God's mercy in our lives, we have a hard time extending it to others--for example, when we don't forgive someone for hurting us, even though we've been forgiven so much (Romans 5:8).
Or when we...